Honor
the Lord with your substance and with the first fruits of all your
produce;
then your barns will be filled with plenty,
and your vats will be bursting with wine.
Proverbs 3:9-10
“Honor the
Lord . . .” Those words caught my eyes as I sat at my desk praying about
Thanksgiving and our preparation for the seasons of Advent and
Christmas.
Honor: 1.
strong moral character or strength, and adherence to ethical principles.
Honor: 2. great respect and admiration.
Honor: 3. personal dignity that sometimes leads to recognition
and glory.
Let me introduce you to
a friend of mine, Alonzo Williams.
Alonzo was, perhaps,
one of the kindest, most faithful people I have ever known. He grew up
poor, the oldest of several children whose father worked the coal-mine
hills of Kentucky while their mother worked whatever work she could find
(besides caring for all the children). Alonzo went to school for a ‘few
years’, but his formal education was a life-long journey through the
school of hard knocks. When still a young teenager, Alonzo heard of a
job opportunity in Northern Indiana at the Culver Military Academy . . .
working in the kitchen. He sought out that job as a way of helping his
family with expenses, of giving his younger sisters and brothers a
chance for an education, and as a way to experience the world beyond the
hatred, prejudice and bigotry of a Kentucky mining town in the midst of
the 20th Century.
Alonzo never left the
Academy. He worked in the kitchen, in the laundry, and occasionally
helped with maintenance. In the latter years of his service there,
Alonzo was the primary dishwasher for an institution which cared for
thousands of students each year, year-round. He didn’t know the meaning
of ‘lazy’ for he didn’t have time to experience it. He was too busy
helping his family. Alonzo’s sisters and brothers all have undergraduate
college degrees, some have graduate degrees: all were paid for by Alonzo
as he washed dishes and did laundry and helped with maintenance on the
barest of minimum salary.
When asked how he did
what he did, Alonzo responded, “It’s what the Lord has given me to do,
so I do it well.” Alonzo never married, he just never found the right
person with the same values and work ethic, besides, as Alonzo said it,
“If I would have married there would have been less money to send home.”
So he lived alone in a sparsely decorated home, few amenities other than
lights, heat and indoor plumbing, he supported his family, and he went
to church . . . and he honored the God who saved him. Yes, that is how
Alonzo said it always, “I honor the God who saves me” which is why I am
thinking about him today.
One other Alonzo story:
after attending a meeting at the church one evening, I came home to find
Nancy nearly in tears. She told me that she had heard the doorbell late
that evening and went to see who it was. It was Alonzo, freshly showered
and in the best of clothes he had to wear, and as Nancy opened the door
to invite him in, he haltingly declined the invitation recognizing that
I was not home and fearing what the neighbors might say. Still, he
handed Nancy a brown grocery bag with four apples and a package of
‘store-bought’ cookies, saying to her, “I heard your family was going
back home for a vacation and I know how long those trips can be, so I
brought you some food for the kids to help them on the way.” And he
turned and went home, having fed our hearts with undeserved love and
care, leaving Nancy with tears in her eyes and me with awe in my soul.
“I honor the God who saves me.”
Those words were
powerfully present just a few short months later when Alonzo didn’t
report to work one morning and was found dead of a massive stroke. In
the days which quickly followed I met an attorney, a nurse, a
businessperson and a doctor: all of them Alonzo’s sisters and brothers,
the first fruits of many years of washing dishes, doing laundry and
helping with maintenance . . . and I kept hearing his voice in my ears,
“I honor the God who saves me.” As we gathered on the steep hillside of
a Kentucky cemetery, in what was formerly called, “The Colored Section’,
and laid Alonzo along-side his mother and father and repeated the
oft-spoken phrases, I couldn’t help but recall and share that old
Confirmation prayer that, in this moment, seemed so, so fitting: “Lord
Jesus, for thee I live, for thee I suffer, and for thee I die. Lord
Jesus, thine will I be in life and in death. Grant me, O Lord, eternal
salvation. Amen.”
His humility, love and
gentleness carried him through a lifetime of honoring the God who saved
him. His work ethic, values and faith strengthened him for a lifetime of
providing for others. To me and so many others, Alonzo Williams was a
living, breathing embodiment of honoring the Lord with the first fruits
of his substance. To outsiders Alonzo may have appeared to have a
substandard level of comfort and to some he may have appeared to be
simple, awkward and sad in his demeanor, but to those who knew him . . .
and I hope to you who now have come to know him . . . Alonzo’s barns are
now filled with plenty and his vat’s are bursting with new wine for his
life was spent honoring, with everything that he had and was, “ . . .
the God who saves me.”
The world may know the
names of George Bush, John Kerry, Colin Powell, Tom Hanks, Robin
Williams, Margaret Thatcher, Princess Diana, Hillary Clinton and
Katherine Hepburn, but the heavens above and the angels who dwell
therein know the names of those, like Alonzo, who honors the God who
saves them. These may not have had state funerals with military honors
and bands to send them on their way, and these may not have even been
known in their local communities for having done much at all, but these
are the ones whom God knows and loves by name, these are the ones who
inherit the Kingdom prepared for them from the beginning of time, that
Kingdom of which Jesus teaches us.
This Thanksgiving take
a lesson from the Gospel according to Alonzo: Remember to honor the God
who saves you. Give as abundantly as you have received. Share as
generously as you have been blessed. Believe as deeply as God believes
in you . . . and to you, too, shall belong the fullness of barns and the
richness of vats. To you shall belong the Kingdom . . . this is God’s
promise. This is the Good News of Jesus Christ. It is true and can be
trusted. Thanks be to God!
